I’m posting photos from our summer trip to Santa Barbara on Flickr. Today we hit the annual Solstice Parade, which is like a combination mobile hippie drum circle, dance-a-thon and doo-dah parade. Very community, weird and non-corporate, just the kind of parade I like.
Sweet and touching story of a high school prom at a Brooklyn school comprised of recent immigrants.
I’m turning 40 in a few weeks. My lovely wife is throwing a party which will feature the drinking of lovely beverages. If you’re reading this, perhaps you might like to attend.
Details are on Upcoming (you’ll need to friend me on Upcoming if you can’t get to this link).
Link: Alcohol use helps boost income: study – Yahoo! News.
WASHINGTON (AFP) – People who consume alcohol earn significantly more at their jobs than non-drinkers, according to a US study that highlighted "social capital" gained from drinking.
The study published in the Journal of Labor Research Thursday concluded that drinkers earn 10 to 14 percent more than teetotalers, and that men who drink socially bring home an additional seven percent in pay.
"Social drinking builds social capital," said Edward Stringham, an economics professor at San Jose State University and co-author of the study with fellow researcher Bethany Peters.
"Social drinkers are out networking, building relationships, and adding contacts to their BlackBerries that result in bigger paychecks."
The authors acknowledged their study, funded by the Reason Foundation, a libertarian think tank, contradicted research released in 2000 by the Harvard School of Public Health.
"We created our hypothesis through casual observation and examination of scholarly accounts," the authors said.
"Casual observation" sounds like code for "we spent our research grant at the pub" to me.
Not that there’s anything wrong with that, mind you.
I have a very complicated relationship with Christmas, which I should attempt to describe so everyone understands where it all goes pear-shaped for me. These are all random thoughts in no particular order.
I enjoy gift-giving. I certainly enjoy receiving gifts, although I suspect I’m the most difficult person in the world to buy for. (This year, what I really wanted was for someone to reformat my Windows XP desktop machine and drop in a new 400GB hard drive. This is not going to happen, so I’m taking care of it myself.) What I don’t like is the way that gift-giving is prescribed; I prefer to give gifts for no reason at all. The notion that people are supposed to give gifts puts me into a really bad psychological state, almost like a phobia: did I get my family enough stuff? Did we get our kid too much stuff? Was there someone I forgot? That kind of thing. Drives me crazy.
Having a kid who is old enough to "get" Christmas makes it way more fun for me. She and I wrapped a present for my wife this morning and she really got into it. She’s at the point where she can write her name on the gift card, too, which is awesome.
This year we’ve got a couple of friends who are in a tight spot with money; I love being able to help them out but it makes me frustrated that we have to. Without going into too much detail about the why’s and wherefores, let’s just say it’s complete crap that people have to go bankrupt in this country because they are in poor health. This is a problem for everybody, because everybody suffers from poor health eventually.
I get a little nervous around this time of the year because when I used to report the news I’d see all kinds of nasty stuff around the holidays that happened because people got drunk and wrecked their cars, or burned up wrapping paper in the fireplace, or whatever. I think I saw two or three houses burn to the ground during the years I was reporting, and the big house fires usually happened around the holidays. Last night I noticed that a certain paper decoration put up by certain members of our family had come into contact with a lamp and all this came flooding back to me.
I really hate most Christmas music; maybe this means I have no soul, but I prefer to believe that most Christmas music is just terrible. We’re currently listening to the Special X channel on XM Radio (via DirecTV, which picked up a few dozen XM channels back in November) which isn’t bad. They play tunes like "Mamacita Donde Esta Santa Claus" and Tom Lehrer which pretty much rules.
The fact that Carole absolutely loves everything about Christmas, including the confounded music, makes my dislike of Christmas’ more candyass aspects a little more difficult to bear. I try not to put a drag on her festivities, and for her part, she’s very accommodating of my humbuggery. The other night when she brought home a set of sparkly stocking-holders for the fireplace mantle that spelled SANTA I wasn’t able to resist rearranging the letters so they spelled SATAN. Then after I was done photographing them and posting the photo to Flickr, I arranged them the right way.
I was talking to a colleague in Japan the other day and he pointed out that they’d decorated the Yahoo! Japan developer Web site for Christmas. I told him I thought it was pretty cool how Christmas had caught on in Japan and he pointed out to me that it wasn’t a religious holiday or anything, just an excuse for gift-giving. I told him it was pretty much the same way over here.
Update: Was completely freaked out just now (in a good way) to see that Gizmodo, coincidentally and appropos of nothing, has a shot of the Charo version of Mamacita Donde Esta Santa Claus up today. This could very well be what they call a "Christmas Miracle". Researching this overlooked gem a bit more, I found a most excellent version by the Chicano crooner El Vez.
Article in the New York Times about drinking games becoming more mainstream (I guess this is a story because beer companies are sponsoring them now, even though as the story points out, these kinds of games have been around since ancient times).
Naturally college administrators are taking a dim view, reflecting the utterly stoopid American attitude toward drinking (which seems to be ban, restrict, condemn, rather than educate and demystify, tactics that aren’t much different than those of Carry Nation).
The best quote was from a Harvard public health genius who was shocked — shocked — to discover that these kinds of games are just a way to get people to drink more. But both drinking and games are there to provide a context for social interaction. Clearly somebody’s missing something here; if there were better contexts for social interaction on campuses, why would people want to go to off-campus bars to play Beer Pong? (Not that there’s anything wrong with that.)
We’re going to see Greg Proops with a group tonight in San Francisco. A few people have extra tickets, so if you’re interested in joining us and seeing Greg for free, ping me (Yahoos grab my cel # from Backyard). We’re seeing the late show which starts at 10PM and meeting beforehand for drinks at La Rocca’s Corner (957 Columbus Avenue) around 9PM.
I’m finally going to get to attend one of Scoble’s storied geek dinners in SF this Saturday…see you all there.